THERAPY FOR MOMS IN STAMFORD, CT

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Imagine how different parenting would feel if...

…You knew how to calmly respond to your child’s behaviors – like meltdowns, ignoring instructions, or regularly forgetting their socks in the morning – without reacting out of frustration, raising your voice, and later feeling guilty.

…Your mother-in-law’s criticism or your next-door-neighbor’s judgment no longer held you hostage when it came to how to discipline, what to give your child for lunch, or screen time limits.

…You could stop comparing yourself to the curated mothers on Instagram who seem to have it all together, perfect studio-level makeup included, and instead, get back to what really matters to you: enjoying quality time with your child.

…And this is exactly what we’re going to do in therapy for moms.

Motherhood is the most important and fulfilling journey you’ve embarked on.

It’s also one of the most emotional.

As the years have gone on, you’ve noticed that parenting your strong-willed child – with all their intelligence, ambition, creativity, and sense of humor – has brought up some of your own “stuff”: While your parents were good parents, you don’t want to repeat old patterns of how they reacted to you when you were young.

And yet, you notice that you do – more often than you’d like to admit.

You’re not proud of the reactions you’ve had when your child doesn’t do what you say: You knee-jerk react out of frustration.

You tend to second-guess yourself and your parenting choices.

You're a mom looking for a therapist in Stamford, CT because you notice that you...

  • Have difficulty prioritizing and planning: “How much time should I spend tackling the household tasks vs. playing with my child and spending time with my spouse?” “Where do my household responsibilities end and my spouse’s begin?” “What about time for myself?”

  • Compare yourself to the other mothers around you, who have seven children and somehow manage to fold the laundry and curl their hair, yet you can’t remember when you last took a shower or completely finished a meal without interruption

  • Criticize and judge yourself for not being or doing enough as a parent, and worry how your shortcomings will affect your child and their future wellbeing

In response, you try to take on everything – without enough support from your spouse and loved ones.

You’re the manager of the house and all the schedules: dentist appointments, class parties, family birthdays, and neighborhood playdates.

Not to mention laundry, grocery shopping, and cooking meals.

You’re also the one everyone goes to when they need something: “Mommy, I need a drink of water!”, “Babe, have you seen my wallet?!”

You’re the one keeping tabs, and you’re tired. It’s left you feeling borderline resentful.

You know what you’re doing isn’t working and isn’t sustainable long-term.

You want to model healthy behavior and self-care to your children, so you’ve tried things like:

  • Self-help style mommy blogs and podcasts that talk about self-care

  • Venting to your close friends

  • Hiring a babysitter or asking your husband to watch the children while you go to the grocery store so you can have an hour alone

  • Going to a meet-up and talking to other moms while your children play on the playground so that you can feel like an adult once a week

Books, blogs, and podcasts offer great information. But applying it to your own personal situation is really difficult to do, especially when the content applies to different stages of motherhood (expecting mothers and pregnancy, postpartum anxiety, postpartum depression, etc). You can’t always find your stage of motherhood reflected back at you.

On top of that, it’s challenging to be objective about your own experience.

Vent sessions don’t actually solve the problem of how anxious you feel, or how you react to your family when you’re feeling stretched too thin. 

Your friends try their best to validate you, but they don’t really seem to fully get your feelings.

And quite frankly you don’t fully relate to the frilly mommy bloggers. You don’t have enough time or energy to make homemade laundry detergent or bake gluten-free cupcakes.

You wonder why you don’t have it all “together.” You sometimes catch yourself feeling jealous of other women who are cool, calm, and collected.

Hiring a babysitter, having your husband watch the kids, or going to playdates don’t solve the root cause, either.

These breaks away from the house, while important, don’t ultimately solve your feelings of annoyance after you come home.

You know you need to prioritize yourself more. You know you need to address your mental health. You don’t want to keep reacting out of frustration, annoyance, or guilt.

You and your friends have talked about “mom guilt.” You know it’s common, you hear about it in mommy circles, but you don’t want that to be your day-to-day experience.

You’re just not sure how.

That’s where I come in.

You and I will partner together to develop practical skills and tools for how to:

  • Respond when the demands of parenting plus the lack of necessary support leave you unsure how to voice your needs and get them met.

  • Soothe and calm yourself during tense moments so that you respond to your child in a way you feel proud of later.

  • Address your child’s behaviors so that you can either breathe a sigh of relief that your child is on the right track for being successful at their next stage (whether that’s elementary school or middle school) OR so that you can intervene appropriately when necessary.

  • Discuss your emotional reactions in a way that is productive and provides “lightbulb moments” and insight into your current behavior and struggles – instead of the conversation turning into a vent session. This will help you understand your emotions better so that you can put a plan in place to help prevent raising your voice and feeling overwhelmed.

  • Prioritize yourself so that your day-to-day stops feeling like a hamster wheel. You wake up feeling optimistic about your day ahead, and you feel excited to spend it with your child.

Gayle Weill, LCSW - Therapy for moms in Stamford, CT

Who is therapy for moms in Stamford, CT the best fit for?

Individual therapy with me IS for moms who…

Are organized, type A, structured thinkers.

Have a lot to say and aren’t apprehensive about talking to a therapist.

Are SO ready to stop knee-jerk-reacting to their family out of anxiety, frustration, or overwhelm and then feeling guilty later.

Want to prioritize themselves and their mental health, and understand the value in doing so, but aren’t sure what that looks like in practice.

Want to respond differently to their child than how their parents at times responded to them. You had good examples growing up but you want to learn to parent even better.

Value the guidance and feedback of a trained, professional therapist and are ready to implement new ideas and skills from the therapy sessions

This is NOT for moms who are…

Only looking for information or only looking to be taught. You’ve already read the blog posts and done your own research. You want an expert in parenting to be a partner and a collaborator on your parenting journey.

Unwilling or unable to execute or practice any new behaviors or skills.

Unwilling to sometimes cry in sessions. People may feel embarrassed to cry in front of their therapist, but sometimes sessions can get intense (I’m nice, I promise!). All this means is that you’re putting in the work.

What makes me different? I’m trained and certified in child-parent psychotherapy (CPP), hypnosis, EMDR, psychodynamic therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and other modalities. I’m also a Circle of Security-Parenting (COS-P) facilitator and accredited therapist with The Center of Adoption Support and Education (C.A.S.E.). I have many years of experience serving parents, families, and children, including those in the foster care system.

My style is kind, down-to-earth, and proactive. You’ll get useful resources to enhance your parenting skills versus silent nodding or abstract advice without applicable input. 

And you’ll do this from the comfort of your home, office, or any private space of your choice. That’s the beauty of online therapy for moms. Reach out to schedule a free consultation today.

About Gayle Weill, LCSW

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Mental Health Resources in Stamford, CT

Connecticut State Department of Mental Health and Addiction Services

City of Stamford

Stamford Health

Driving Directions to Stamford, CT

From the North (e.g., Hartford or Springfield):
Take I-91 South toward New Haven. Merge onto I-95 South via Exit 29 toward New York City. Continue on I-95 South and take Exit 8 or 9 into Stamford, depending on your destination.

From the South (e.g., New York City or New Jersey):
Take I-95 North toward New Haven. Continue past the New York-Connecticut border. Take Exit 8 or 9 into Stamford, depending on your destination.

From the East (e.g., New Haven or Rhode Island):
Take I-95 West toward New York City. Follow signs for Stamford. Take Exit 8 or 9 into Stamford.

From the West (e.g., White Plains or Upstate NY):
Take I-287 East to I-95 North. Continue on I-95 North into Connecticut. Take Exit 8 or 9 into Stamford.

About Stamford, CT:

Stamford, CT is a thriving city located in Fairfield County along Connecticut’s Gold Coast, known for its dynamic blend of coastal charm, urban energy, and corporate presence. As one of the state’s largest cities, Stamford offers a walkable downtown, vibrant dining and arts scenes, and access to beaches and parks like Cove Island and Mill River Park. It’s home to the UConn Stamford campus, which brings a strong academic presence to the heart of the city. With a strong economy anchored by financial and tech firms, it’s also a popular commuter hub thanks to its express train service to New York City. For more information, visit the City of Stamford official website, explore things to do on CT Visit, or check out local news and events on Stamford Patch.

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